{"id":2099,"date":"2026-07-27T19:31:29","date_gmt":"2026-07-27T17:31:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/?page_id=2099"},"modified":"2026-09-25T14:47:14","modified_gmt":"2026-09-25T12:47:14","slug":"therapie-couple-familiale","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/therapie-couple-familiale\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples or family therapy"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Couples therapy by Anne-Sophie :<\/h4>\n

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\" Behind every complaint lies a deep desire. \"<\/p>\n

John Gottman<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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When a couple is struggling<\/b>, it is not because one partner is wrong and the other is right. More often, it is because both partners are trapped in a way of relating to each other that no longer allows them to truly understand one another. Seeking couples therapy<\/b> is not about performing an autopsy on your relationship. It is about taking the chance to transform your relationship<\/b>, and that new relationship will, in turn, have the power
to transform each of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

You both agree to come <\/span>to couples therapy together<\/b><\/span>, to <\/span>talk, to listen, <\/span>to speak to one another, and to truly hear each other. <\/span>This means there is <\/span>already a shared desire and willingness to understand one another, and I am here to <\/span>support you in that shared commitment.<\/span><\/p>\n

My role is above all to create the conditions of <\/span>trust that make genuine dialogue possible, allowing you to talk about <\/span>yourselves rather than about each other, by expressing your <\/span>needs<\/b><\/span> and making <\/span>requests<\/b><\/span> instead of exchanging <\/span>blame<\/b><\/span>, and above all by focusing on your <\/span>relationship<\/b><\/span> rather than on either <\/span>partner<\/b><\/span>. These <\/span>regular conversations, which draw on each person's strengths, help you <\/span>discover new ways of <\/span>living your relationship differently<\/b><\/span>, <\/span>navigate challenging periods, revitalize or even transform your relationship, or <\/span>ultimately bring it to an end. A <\/span>separation<\/b><\/span> (whether temporary or <\/span>permanent) does not diminish the progress made together during your sessions. <\/span>On the contrary, it may be a sign that you have <\/span>gained greater clarity. <\/span>Couples therapy<\/span> does not always aim to \"save\" the relationship. Rather, it offers you <\/span>a space to better understand yourselves, both individually and together.<\/span><\/p>\n

In couples therapy<\/b>, sessions are attended as a couple. However, along the way, at certain stages, there may sometimes be a need for personal space, because some things can be difficult to express in the presence of the other person: either out of fear of causing hurt, fear of disappointing, or because emotions can quickly become overwhelming. I may suggest, or you may request, an individual session<\/span><\/b> that remains part of the shared therapeutic work. <\/span>These sessions remain strictly within the framework of <\/span>couples <\/span>therapy<\/span><\/b>, with the aim of gaining a better understanding of your <\/span>relational <\/span>dynamics<\/span><\/b> and supporting the connection and partnership between you.
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To go further, I invite you to read my article on couples therapy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

 Family Therapy by Anne-Sophie :<\/span><\/h4>\n
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The therapist<\/b> helps the family<\/b> discover resources that they never knew they possessed.<\/span><\/p>\n

Salvador Minuchin, Families and family therapy <\/span>(1974)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

La th\u00e9rapie familiale syst\u00e9mique<\/b>, issue du mod\u00e8le de Palo Alto<\/u><\/b>, consid\u00e8re que les difficult\u00e9s d\u2019une personne s\u2019inscrivent dans un contexte relationnel plus large. Plut\u00f4t que de chercher une cause unique ou un responsable, autrement dit de chercher qui a tort ou raison, elle s\u2019int\u00e9resse aux interactions entre les membres de la famille<\/b>. Les comportements, les \u00e9motions et les modes de communication <\/b>sont observ\u00e9s comme les \u00e9l\u00e9ments d\u2019un syst\u00e8me o\u00f9 chacun influence les autre<\/b>s. C\u2019est plus souvent la fa\u00e7on dont nous faisons face \u00e0 nos probl\u00e8mes qui pose probl\u00e8me, plus que le probl\u00e8me d\u00e9sign\u00e9 lui-m\u00eame. Et ce n\u2019est pas parce qu\u2019une famille rencontre des difficult\u00e9s<\/b> qui se sont transform\u00e9es en probl\u00e8me que quelque chose est cass\u00e9 irr\u00e9m\u00e9diablement. Les familles regorgent d\u2019inventivit\u00e9 !<\/b><\/p>\n

I meet with the family members who choose to take part<\/b> in order to express themselves<\/b> and share<\/b> how they experience things within the family. Sessions can take place<\/b> individually<\/b>, as a couple, with three people\u2026 every family story is unique, and I adapt to the context and to the needs that can be expressed.<\/span><\/p>\n

In families, there are often several narratives of the same situation. Each person tells the story in their own way, based on what they see, hear, sense, and feel. All narratives are enlightening and valuable.<\/p>\n

My work as a therapist<\/b> is to try to connect these narratives<\/b> in service of what the family<\/b> is seeking to transform.<\/p>\n

I help the family to : <\/span><\/h6>\n

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        • understand the dynamics that maintain the problem (the vicious cycles)<\/li>\n
        • to experiment with new ways of relating to one another, because changing a relationship means opening up the possibility of a new story<\/b><\/li>\n
        • to nurture communication, which is one of the ways a relationship is expressed. Often, small adjustments in the way we communicate are enough for new possibilities to emerge.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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          The goal is not to identify a \u201cpatient\u201d, but to mobilize the<\/b> resources<\/b> of the members of the family system<\/b> in order to foster lasting changes and <\/span>a better family balance.<\/b> <\/span>Sometimes just a few sessions<\/b> are enough to dissolve misunderstandings<\/b> <\/span>or resolve long-standing conflicts<\/b>.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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          La th\u00e9rapie de couple par Anne-Sophie : \u00ab Derri\u00e8re chaque plainte se cache un d\u00e9sir profond \u00bb John Gottman Lorsqu\u2019un couple souffre, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"postBodyCss":"","postBodyMargin":[],"postBodyPadding":[],"postBodyBackground":{"backgroundType":"classic","gradient":""},"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"disabled","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-2099","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2099","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2099"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2099\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2122,"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/2099\/revisions\/2122"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2099"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}