{"id":1777,"date":"2025-06-18T17:01:01","date_gmt":"2025-06-18T15:01:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/?p=1777"},"modified":"2025-07-31T19:10:09","modified_gmt":"2025-07-31T17:10:09","slug":"therapie-de-couple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/therapie-de-couple\/","title":{"rendered":"Couples therapy: providing a space of trust to transform the bond, consult before the storm"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1777\" class=\"elementor elementor-1777\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cbca74e e-con-full e-flex e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"cbca74e\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9470874 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"9470874\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/elementor\/thumbs\/photo_therapie_de_couple_NB_ok-rl2yj5iwwrym37scar8wc63l6xw45fzcxll4kips3s.webp\" title=\"therapie-sauver-couple-enfants-famille-noiretblanc.jpg\" alt=\"Photographie noire et blanc repr\u00e9sentant une silhouette d\u2019un couple heureux avec leurs enfants en arri\u00e8re-plan, sur un fond \u00e0 structure g\u00e9om\u00e9trique, illustrant la symbolique du lien familial et l\u2019importance de la th\u00e9rapie de couple pour \u00e9viter la s\u00e9paration.\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Building or rebuilding a strong bond takes work... and it's possible, even before the breakup.<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35acf29 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35acf29\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"translation-block\">\u201cI can\u2019t take it anymore, me neither, we\u2019re drained, we can\u2019t even talk to each other, <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">not even look at each other\u2026 he\/she doesn\u2019t listen to me, he\/she keeps saying the same things,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">he\/she will never change, I know it, he\/she wants me to change but he\/she\u2026 doesn\u2019t move,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">so what do we do? Do we end it? Do we keep going?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5bcbeea elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5bcbeea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u201c1 + 1 = 3\u201d: when the couple becomes a system in its own right<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15f5db2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"15f5db2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Chaque couple est une cr\u00e9ation singuli\u00e8re, vivante et mouvante. Il ne se r\u00e9sume pas\u00a0<span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">\u00e0 deux individualit\u00e9s, mais forme un v\u00e9ritable syst\u00e8me : une \u201ctroisi\u00e8me entit\u00e9\u201d n\u00e9e de\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">la rencontre de deux histoires, deux psych\u00e9s, deux langages, deux corps, deux\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">mondes. Cette id\u00e9e de \u201c1 + 1 = 3\u201d, ch\u00e8re \u00e0 <u>Jacques Salom\u00e9<\/u>, exprime bien cette\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><span style=\"font-weight: inherit;\">r\u00e9alit\u00e9 syst\u00e9mique : <\/span><br \/><b>il y a moi, il y a toi\u2026 et il y a le couple que nous formons\u00a0<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><b>ensemble, ce lien qui nous unit.<br \/><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\"><br \/>C\u2019est cette \u00ab\u00a0personne l\u00e0\u00a0\u00bb que je rencontre en th\u00e9rapie, <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><b>depuis plus de dix ans<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">, aux\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">c\u00f4t\u00e9s de couples de tous horizons : h\u00e9t\u00e9rosexuels, homosexuels, bisexuels, queer,\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">jeunes ou exp\u00e9riment\u00e9s, issus de cultures similaires ou multiples, \u00abprimo-acc\u00e9dant\u00bb\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">ou recompos\u00e9s. Chaque <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;\">couple<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\"> a ses codes, ses silences, ses douleurs, ses forces\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">et bien s\u00fbr ses myst\u00e8res. Chacun vient avec une demande, parfois implicite :\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">comprendre ce qui ne fonctionne plus, communiquer diff\u00e9remment\u2026 ou pr\u00e9venir ce\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">qui pourrait se briser.<br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\"><br \/>Mais venir <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;\"><b>consulter en couple<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">, ce n\u2019est pas demander une autopsie. C\u2019est au\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">contraire choisir la vie, vouloir la transformer et par l\u00e0 m\u00eame oser se transformer.<br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">C\u2019est s\u2019offrir un espace pour revisiter la relation et s\u2019y repositionner \u2014\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">individuellement et ensemble.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ff1c20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8ff1c20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Why consult? And why now?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-954dc4b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"954dc4b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><p class=\"translation-block\">Many couples seek help when they\u2019re on the edge of <b> the <\/b> <strong> breakup<\/strong>. <br> It\u2019s human: as long as things \u201chold together,\u201d we keep going. And yet, coming to therapy before the storm can be an act of preventive care, an act of <b> relational maturity<\/b>. It allows you to explore <b> tensions<\/b>, unspoken issues, and expectations before they become unmanageable.<\/p><h3><span style=\"color: #b135ff;\">Here are some contexts in which couples therapy can be beneficial:<\/span><\/h3><\/div><ul><li>Recurring conflicts with no constructive outcome, everyone sticks to their positions.<\/li><li>A loss of connection, desire or complicity.<\/li><li>A triggering event (birth, bereavement, infidelity, illness, professional change, etc.).<\/li><li>A disagreement of values, culture or lifestyle that becomes burdensome.<\/li><li>A need to revisit the founding bases: loyalties, commitments, projects, limits.<\/li><li>A desire to understand each other better, even outside of conflict.<\/li><li>Wanting to separate without difficulty, writing a story of fertile lovelessness<\/li><\/ul><div><div class=\"translation-block\">There can be two types of goals: wanting to <b> heal<\/b> and <b> take<\/b> <strong> curative action<\/strong> and\/or to prevent problems or their chronic development. In all these cases, it\u2019s not just about \u201cfixing,\u201d but about shedding light on the dynamic in which each person is involved, often despite themselves.<\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-263a062 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"263a062\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The couple, a living cell exposed to storms<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a646445 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a646445\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"translation-block\">The couple, as a system, is a living cell evolving within a <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> changing environment, subject to external winds and tensions. Some<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> storms can be felt approaching, but not always. Some crises<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> stem from within: differences in pace, misunderstandings, value conflicts,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> sexuality\u2026 <br> Others are external: extended family, work, children if there are any,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> illness, moving house, or encounters that might break the implicit or explicit commitment, etc. <br><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"><br> The systemic model encourages us not to look for someone to blame, but rather to observe<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> how the system operates. When a storm hits, it\u2019s not always the other person<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> who is the problem, nor even myself\u2026 it\u2019s the type of relationship we\u2019ve<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> built and the way we function together.<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> So, understanding what\u2019s not working is also a step toward what can be reinvented.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c502037 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c502037\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The couple's dance*: \nbetween the need to belong and the desire for singularity<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7172297 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7172297\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>A couple lives between two sometimes contradictory poles:<\/p><ul><li>The need for belonging, fusion, intimacy, security.<\/li><li>The need for singularity, autonomy, independence, freedom.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"translation-block\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> As <u>Mony Elka\u00efm<\/u> \u2014 a key figure in <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit\"><b> systemic therapy<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> \u2014 points out, <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> the couple is often caught in a double bind: <\/span><\/p><blockquote><p class=\"translation-block\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> \u201cBe close, but let<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> me be free,\u201d <br> \u201cShow me that I matter to you, but don\u2019t be dependent on me <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote><p class=\"translation-block\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> It is within these tensions that invisible loyalties sometimes resurface \u2014 a concept <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> notably explored by psychiatrist <u>Iv\u00e1n Boszormenyi-Nagy<\/u>. We are often <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> loyal to our family history without even knowing it, repeating certain patterns or <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> refusing to repeat them\u2026 but without having learned any alternatives. <br><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"><br> Therapy allows these loyalties to be brought to light \u2014 these inherited or <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> internalized injunctions \u2014 and gives the couple <br> a margin of freedom.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d73f688 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d73f688\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">What I propose: \na space for listening and transformation<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-814d7a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"814d7a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"translation-block\">My support is part of <a href=\"https:\/\/psylyon6.com\/en\/therapie-breve-systemique-lyon-6\/\" target=\"_self\"><b> brief systemic therapy<\/b><\/a>, which means:<\/p><ul><li class=\"translation-block\">That we look together at <b>the relationship<\/b> in its context (family, professional, cultural, and its forms of intimacy, etc.).<\/li><li>That we explore interactions together and not mistakes.<\/li><\/ul><ul><li>That I work with the couple, and not for them, nor for one or other of their components.<\/li><li class=\"translation-block\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">That we aim for change, movement, more than intellectual <\/span>understanding of the past.<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"translation-block\">I am neither arbiter nor judge. I am a third-party facilitator, who observes the dynamics, questions loyalties, reformulates the underlying demands, helps decode the emotional languages.\u00a0<br><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"><br>My goal as a therapist is to create a climate conducive to discussion and<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> to<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit\"><b> conflict resolution<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">, a secure space where everyone can express themselves without fear, <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">rehear the other differently, experiment with new postures, and sometimes, <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\">accept to transform themselves so that the relationship can evolve.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4babd3d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4babd3d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Some preconceived ideas to deconstruct:<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dbffa88 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dbffa88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">\u2192 \u201cCouples therapy is for couples in crisis.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"translation-block\"><strong>False.<\/strong> It\u2019s a space to grow together, even when things are going well. It is more effective <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> to intervene before communication is completely broken down.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u2192 \u201cIt\u2019s always one of the two who ruins everything, and my partner doesn\u2019t communicate\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"translation-block\"><b> In<\/b> <b> systemic therapy<\/b>, <b> there is neither a guilty party nor a non-communicator<\/b>. It\u2019s not one partner or the other <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> who is to blame \u2014 it\u2019s their interactions. If the relationship jams,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> it\u2019s partly because the communication between them is symmetrical. Just as<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> \u201cone cannot not communicate,\u201d as <u>Paul Watzlawick<\/u>, one of the<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> founders of the Palo Alto systemic model, used to say: \u201cin any human interaction,<\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> something is being said \u2014 even in silence.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>\u2192 \u201cTalking is useless, it makes things worse.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"translation-block\"><b> It\u2019s not about talking more, but about talking differently<\/b>. With structure, attentive listening, <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> and a kind, clear therapeutic framework. And talking is often not enough \u2014 it\u2019s also about <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> finding together the resources to act differently.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\">\u2192 \u201cIf we love each other, it must be simple.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"translation-block\"><b> Love is a driving force, not a guarantee<\/b>. The couple is a constant learning process, <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> a dialogue between differences that requires tolerance, flexibility, <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> courage, and sometimes outside help.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c1235e8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c1235e8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conclusion: Choosing Consciousness Over Survival<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bb4ec31 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bb4ec31\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p style=\"text-align: left;\" class=\"translation-block\">Consulting a <b> couples therapist<\/b>, coming to talk about your relationship together, is perhaps <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> also and still an act of love and above all a sign of courage because <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> no one knows, and least of all the therapist, which direction will be taken and where it <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> will lead you. It\u2019s not an admission of failure. It\u2019s an act of responsibility, a <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> way of saying to each other: <\/span><\/p><blockquote><p style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit; font-weight: inherit;\">\u201cWe are better than our current dysfunction.\u201d<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote><p class=\"translation-block\">It\u2019s offering the relationship <b>a chance to evolve<\/b>, before exhaustion and before saying to yourself:<\/p><blockquote><p>\u201cIf I had known\u2026\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote><p class=\"translation-block\">Every couple has their challenges. It is not their existence that poses a problem, it is the way of crossing them. And it\u2019s completely legitimate to <strong>ask for help<\/strong> to learn how to dance better together, without stepping on each other\u2019s toes.\ud83d\ude09<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fa8f18c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fa8f18c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">You are welcome<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33c1edd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"33c1edd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"translation-block\">If you feel the need to take stock, to be heard, to listen to each other more <span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> calmly within a framework that respects everyone, to be supported in this <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> complex adventure that is life as a couple, don\u2019t wait until you\u2019re standing at the edge of the cliff. <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> Come while there is still life, connection, desire. <br><\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"><br><\/span><\/p><p class=\"translation-block\"><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> I welcome you where you are, I follow you where you want to go \u2014 <br> without <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> judgment, without a magic formula, but with the desire to walk a part of the path with <\/span><span style=\"font-style: inherit;font-weight: inherit\"> you toward a more conscious, more flexible, more living connection. 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